30 Day Challenge – Day 3

So I apparently never pressed “publish” on this yesterday…🤦

____20 Facts About YOU___

1) My dogs are my children.

My child Dixie.

The newest addition to the family, Chunkers.

2) I’m addicted to buying purses 🙄. As well as cowboy boots.

3) I have a coffee cup collection. (Justin calls it an addiction.)

4) I love to cross stitch. I’m making Justin a stocking for Christmas. (It’s ok…he knows so you can’t spoil it for him 😘).

5) I live to dance. I also love to dance.

6) I go line dancing and country swing dancing in my free time. 

My damce partner and I in the middle of a lift.

7) I’ve been doing color guard and winter guard for 17 years.

8) I moved from the country to the city and I hate it.

9) I hate hip hop, r&b, and rap music. Nowadays you can’t understand what they are talking about and when you look up the lyrics…just ugh.

10) Country music concerts are the best concerts because the artists actually sound like they do on their CDs. 

11) My sister is an assistant wine maker at a winery back home. She bottled and sold her own wine!

12) I’d rather stay at home curled up on the couch with a book and the TV on then go out.

13) I’m a night owl. I get my best work done after midnight.

14) I work night shift. See 13.

15) I’m a bartender/mixologist. 

Rainbow shots. (From about a year ago.)

16) I’m slowly but surely working on learning flair.

17) I love school supplies.

18) My style is bohemian country chic.

19) My grandpa calls me a redneck hippie.

20) Last but not least, I have the most amazing boyfriend in the whole entire world. He treats me like a Queen and loves me for who I am. I love him more than he knows. 

Justin and I at the Alabama concert last year.

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Qualifications

So I’ve come up with a list of qualifications for my next relationship. Here it is:

  1. He has to challenge me mentally. I’m tired of dating men that cannot talk to me about the things that interest me because they simply do not understand them.
  2. No DUIs. Come on. “But I was young and stupid.” Yeah I was young and stupid once too but I didn’t get pulled over drunk.
  3. Doesn’t want kids. I know this is a sensitive topic but I don’t want kids. I don’t even think I can have them to be honest, so it’s easier to not want them then to be heartbroken over trying and failing to conceive. Plus I don’t want to grow a human. That’s too much work.
  4. Wants to travel. Obvious.
  5. Will take cute selfies with me and not bitch about it. 😛 
  6. Will do things with me like painting the house at 2am. Seriously because I just painted my upstairs hallway.
  7. Works out. This will motivate me to do the same.
  8. Physically attractive. Come on ladies. If you don’t wanna have sex with your man then the relationship is not gonna work.
  9. College degree or some kind of equivalent expensive piece of paper.
  10. Has his own goals in life. And wants to help me to achieve my goals.
  11. Will walk BESIDE me through life. Not in front of or behind me. I need someone who can share the load. I’m tired of being strong all by myself. Someone standing with me can help to ease some of the struggle.
  12. Supports me in what I do. I will do the same.
  13. “Put on that dress I like and I’ll pick you up at 7.” Plan dates for us. Stop using “I don’t know, you pick.” I want romance.
  14. Will want to take baths with me. 
  15. Bonfires, mud bogs, and truck pulls. Duh.
  16. Eats healthy. I need motivation in that area too.
  17. Spontaneous. What if I wanna drive to the beach one night and just lay out on the sand on a blanket and contemplate the universe with the waves crashing in the background?
  18. Since I’m a Scorpio, astrological matches are a must. No Libras. Sorry guys. I’m also pretty done with Virgos…
  19. Spiritual. Not religious. I’m a wiccan. I need someone that understands what I do. That’s important. No I will not go to church. So don’t ask.
  20. Will do yoga with me. I’ve always wanted to try tantric yoga 😉
  21. Most importantly…can understand, appreciate, and use sarcasm with ease.
  22. TATTOOS…I love them. I have lots and am getting more. Share this with me.
  23. Coffee drinker. This is kind of a deal breaker.
  24. Dog person.
  25. Has a job/career that he loves or is at least happy with.
  26. Has experience in the restaurant business. I’m tired of explaining to people why I don’t leave right at the time we close.
  27. He has to dance. This is also a deal breaker.
  28. I have to be attracted to his hands. I love rough hands. Working man’s hands. That know when to fight, when to work, and when to love. I need to feel safe and secure in his arms.

I know this is probably a tall order but I’m done with settling. I want what I want, and I will get what I want or I’ll just end up being the crazy dog lady.

I want my first marriage to be my only marriage.

Coffee

I feel that my love of coffee deserves a blog post so here it is:

Coffee and I have an undying relationship. When things get rocky, Coffee is what I turn to to make it all go away. A warm cup of coffee helps everything. Sometimes Coffee needs the help of his friends Baileys and Khalua (those are the more rough days) though. Like today. I have gone through so many emotions in the past two days it is unbelievable. My ex moved out yesterday, I’m suffering from a horrible ear infection, mother nature can be a bitch, and let me just say that when someone seems too good to be true…they are. 

So Baileys and Khalua have joined forces with Coffee to help me recover from this emotional bombardment. It also helped that my dear Scorpio friend came to visit today and I was able to sage my house of left over energies and get back into reading tarot. 

My all time favorite coffee mug. It combines my love of coffee with my love of Mustangs and Fords.

So thank you Coffee for being there when no one else is. You are warm and comforting to my soul. I think that you are my soul mate.

For real though, if you want to win me over, just bring me coffee…preferably from Dunkin Donuts.. Large Xtra Cream and Xtra Sugar 🙂

Blessed be!

Seraphina