Well…

I cannot believe it’s been so long since I have posted anything here.  Life has a weird way of catching up to you and before you know it, you’re stuck in traffic. Good news is that traffic always let’s up, it just may take a while.

So I’ve decided to get off the highway for a while

 and cruise down some backroads. Hopefully this will give me time to do what I love to do. Write.

Love, peace, and Blessed Be

Seraphina

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Not Everyone Matters

Once you stop living your life for everyone else and start living your life for yourself, you find out who your true friends really are. Those who just wanted something from you, to use you and throw you away, suddenly dissappear, and all who remain are those who actually care about you. This number may be small, in fact it’s usually about two or three, but those two or three people are always there for you no matter what. Sometimes a person you thought was your best friend ends up being one of those disappearing acts. It hurts but you are better off for it in the end.

By trying to eliminate things that are tying me down so I can seamlessly move across the country, I feel like I’ve lost a lot of people. One person in particular has used me time and time again and now that I’ve come to terms with it, they have basically left my life completely. Over and over again I have seen this person, my best friend, destroy everything they worked hard for and run to me to save the day. 

No more. I’m not in the saving mood any longer. I don’t want relationships, friendships included, that require me to save someone. I want all the people in my life to walk beside me, not in front of or behind me. I want people in my life that support me as much as I support them. I want people who work WITH me.

“The light from the fires of the bridges I’m burning will guide my way.”

I would love to find someone that will travel the world with me. An adventure partner. Be that a friendship or a relationship, it doesn’t matter. Will I find that person here? Most likely not. I’ve burned so many bridges here in my hometown, I’m surrounded by flames. Granted those flames are giving me the strength and the energy I need to go somewhere completely new and uproot my entire life and start over.

That being said, one soul has touched mine and stoked the fire inside of me, so to speak. This soul brought my name to me, constantly challenges me to think, and gives me a steady unlimited energy stream. I don’t know where this new found connection will take me but I do know that I am better for having met them. I’m putting this in the hands of the universe. Where ever it leads, it leads. If it doesn’t go anywhere, so be it.

Start living your life for YOU and everyone you don’t need will go away and leave those who love you standing there with open arms. Remember: NOT EVERYONE MATTERS. Only a select few matter and those are the ones to focus on. Stop focusing on how other people see you and just BE you.

Blessed be!

Seraphina 

Raise Your Vibration Part 2

You are probably sitting there thinking “Well that’s great and all, but how do I accomplish raising my vibration? What does it mean?” 

Every soul buzzes at a certain frequency. Everything living and non-living has an energy, or at least the ability to hold energy. Crystals, for example, have a natural frequency of their own but are also charged by their owners. 

So how can you stop living at a low frequency? Here’s something I found very helpful in my journey:

If you feel yourself getting low, go dancing, hug a friend, cuddle with your pet, do some arts and crafts, write something, go take a walk outside and just listen and feel what mother nature has to offer, take a deep breath and re-center yourself. “Oh but I’m so busy. I don’t have time for that.” Yes you do. I live a very busy chaotic life yet I’ve started MAKING time for these things and I’ve really felt and seen a difference in myself. People close to me have noticed a difference too.

Just do it.

Blessed be!

Raise Your Vibration

Came across this today. This is what I am always trying to explain to people. Just feel it. Raise your vibrations, get right with the universe. 

The universe constantly speaks to me not in words but in feelings. Since I have started letting the universe do its thing, I have been much happier. 

Someone asked me about a week ago how I know what the universe is trying to tell me. “How do you know the universe is actually leading you? Is there some kind of signal it gives you?” Yes, actually there is. It’s called gut instinct. My gut has never failed me…not once. Everytime I have ignored it, life hasn’t been pretty. 

Go with your gut, raise your vibrations, trust your instincts…they are there for a reason!

Blessed be!